There are so many cases of people hurting from love around me. i am like a love doctor, treating people :) not to be loved in return is painful for some people and for some is to love someone and never finds the courage to let the person know how you feel. This is painful since i experienced it myself.. you can never forget them effortlessly, its not an over night thingy. Always put yourself in other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably does hurt the person too. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we should know how to be grateful for that gift. Healing and forgetting takes time, pray for strength to let it go. The more you try to forget it, it will just come back harder. Those who feel guilty liking someone, please don't. It was never wrong to fall in love. Remember God is with us even with the single hood :)
i do long for a relationship, but i know i am still “young” so i guess there are plenty of chances :) i just got over my own relationship problem. God doesn't give you such a strong desire for companionship just to torture you; it's there for a reason and it's completely natural. Some of us don't feel the need for a partner and that's fine -each to their own.